You can't run but you can Hive

[Tinker Gnome]

Ahhh but do you think that people who think dirty thoughts are bad

*waves a Calvin & Hobbes sign "Hate the sin not the sinner"*

No one can defeat me.

Anyways, I am out of here for a while. See everyone later. Bai Bee!

 

[Goldmoon]

Ahhh but do you think that people who think dirty thoughts are bad

*waves a Calvin & Hobbes sign "Hate the sin not the sinner"*

Ooooo, in that case I am a bad, bad, bad girl.

 

[Bold or Stupid]

...and I deserve to be a sith lord if assessed on thoughts, but then I GM.

 

[Ginnel]

Ooooo, in that case I am a bad, bad, bad girl.

Awww you know you're gonna rile Aeson up with that one there'll be tongues hanging out and all sorts

2 Weeks on and this is where the major regrets/doubts are sinking in *thinks back to how bad he felt 2 and 3 weeks ago*

hmm :confuzzled:

*goes to get some booze*

 

[Phaezen]

Well, I decided to move my gaming blog to LJ. If anyone's interested: Gaming with the Rat

Afternoon Hive

Blackrat - that looks interesting

 

[Aeson]

I have a confession to make. I refer to a woman as my roommate. I did that because I got tired of saying potential roommate. She's moved things in and painted the bedrooms for her and her daughter but is not living here yet. It's been a few months and I'm not sure it's going to happen.

I make that confession because I wanted my rant to make some sense. Thus begins the rant.....

I decided to take a break from gaming for Lent. It's been good for me. Most of my friends think of it as a positive thing for me. I say most because she's not happy. The Sunday D&D game was moved from my house and the Saturday game hasn't taken place since before Lent started. I've heard from more than one source that she was complaining about me taking the break for Lent and said I was doing it because I thought it would impress her. I've tried talking to her vie phone, email, text message, Facebook. No luck, no reply. Yesterday I send out an email about going to the movies this weekend. The first thing I hear from her in over 2 weeks is a reply to someone else's reply asking is we're ever going to play Shadowrun or Harnmaster again.

I'm trying to get in touch with her because we need to decide what we're going to do about living together. I told her that my parents may let the house be foreclosed on and she suggested that we find another house we could rent together. That was over a month ago. I even found a house to rent but she didn't reply back to my email.

I'm not sure what to do anymore. My friends have told me living with her would be bad for my mental health. I'm thinking they may be right.

 

[Ginnel]

roommate stuff

Standard disclaimer about not knowing the full situation.

Right now we've got that out of the way.
RUN!!
Run like hell, get out of dodge, skidaddle, scarper, flee, retreat, exit, reverse, escape.

In short take the advice of your friends out there in the real world.

 

[Aeson]

Standard disclaimer about not knowing the full situation.

Right now we've got that out of the way.
RUN!!
Run like hell, get out of dodge, skidaddle, scarper, flee, retreat, exit, reverse, escape.

In short take the advice of your friends out there.

Even people that don't know her are saying it. lol

My friends have known her for less time than I have but seem to see her differently as though they know more about her than I do.

I have options available to me. One friend has a room I can rent. It'll be around half of one of my paychecks. The other option is find a small place that I can afford. That will cost more than the room.

 

[Aeson]

Awww you know you're gonna rile Aeson up with that one there'll be tongues hanging out and all sorts

Stuff like that annoys me. I know I'm a joke but I don't like people making the jokes.

I guess I can dish it out but I can't take it.

 

[Ginnel]

basically Aes what I'm working on is if she can pull your strings like this (and she probably knows she can) she ain't gonna be good for you, move her to a periphery of your life rather than her being more towards the centre.

Get some distance, get a different perspective and you'll probably see what your friends are seeing.