Hussar
Legend
Thank you.
As to your question, if you weren't speaking to me I am sorry. I assumed you were and your reply to my previous post was directed at me and said those same things I am objecting to. So to me all the evidence I had up until now was that you were speaking to me.
Honestly I don't really see how @Elfcrusher ever said it wasn't okay. He said he dislikes spell shops and sharing spells for the same reason he dislikes magic item shops. Clearly a personal preference and not an objective statement on his part IMO. If you took him differently and that's where those comments came from then that's fine. I don't want to get into an argument about what some third party's post meant or didn't mean.
If one person said I dont think it is a problem then no issue. It was that Most everyone did that. Why is that a problem? Because it was everyone assuming the worst case scenario in what I was saying. (Or perhaps what elfcrusher was saying).
Surely you can see how someone would feel it's toxic when everyone gangs up on them by assuming the worst about something they said. Especially when those assumptions weren't anywhere near true.
Heh. It's all good.
But, could I make a suggestion? When numerous people interpret your words a certain way, and it's not the way you intended, then perhaps clarifying your meaning would be more productive than insisting that everyone else is wrong or toxic? Written mediums are bad for conveying meaning and it's very easy for things to have a different meaning than what you intended.
If it was just one person, then, well, that's probably on them. But, when several people all take your words the same way, then that's on you.