Umbran, my hat is off. What a succinct expression of what I was trying to convey!Umbran said:If it isn't an open marriage, and there's something wrong in their relationship, their chances of fixing it are going to be much, much higher if she tells him. Her being honest about it is a good first step.
I agree with this part of your post. They are being most inconsiderate by forcing their host to participate in deceiving the husband.Kastil said:Having the group break up should be the least of your problems. It would seem to me that they're using your house as their 'meeting point' for this activity. The main point here is -YOUR HOUSE.
Just because they have violated your space does not entitle you to violate theirs. Otherwise we're in a social race to the bottom. Their violation of your social boundaries does not entitle you to violate theirs in retaliation.jasper said:Sorry it is my business if a couple is cheating in MY house or in front of me. I would tell the couple to knock off in my home and then tell the husband. They have brought their private lives into my public life. Sorry if it is an open marriage please not on my couch. Ain’t no secret if they are doing it in other people’s homes.