Faolyn
(she/her)
Except that you mostly don't have to bend plausibility. Especially if you actually read the background feature.Which is why background features like this are problematic if you don't want to change the setting or bend plausibility to accommodate them. I'd rather not bother with them mechanically at all if that's the case.
In case you've forgotten, this tangent was, way back when, about the Folk Hero, and how their feature shouldn't work because nobody would recognize them. Except that the background feature has nothing to do with being a folk hero. You were a hero in your home village, that gave you a taste for heroics, you became an adventurer. The end. Backgrounds are literally what you did before you became an adventurer. The feature is actually about being a commoner, and part of Oofta's complaint, IIRC, is that that same feature isn't written into the commoner statblock, therefore it's illogical to let PCs have it. That makes about as much sense as saying a PC with the noble background should automatically be able to parry every turn because that is written into the noble statblock.
Except you're not willing to put in a few seconds of thought to think about how something is logically consistent, and coming up with a reason isn't "magic" or "ignoring logic," it's literally putting in less than a minute of thought to realize a way that it is logical--that, and recognizing that your snap decision wasn't necessarily correct.I'm putting my priority on building a living, breathing world that people enjoy playing in. One that's logically consistent and if I think a background feature isn't appropriate I'll tell you why. It has everything to do with making the game as fun for my players as I know how.
And again, I'm not following the letter of the rules; I'm following the spirit. A commoner PC, if there's one in my game, manages to get along well enough with other commoners so that they're willing to help them out.If my style doesn't work for you, if you insist on always follow the letter of the rules, then I don't know what to say. Find a different DM.