Hmmm...
Umbran, your bringing up the gamer population has given me a somewhat radical idea. We should drop this pretense of fitting in with the normal population, and build our own city, the City of Gamers!
Oh, a city of social misfits, predominated by males, you say? Maybe at the outset, but as new generations of gamers are raised in a society where they are the norm, then they will grow up more confident and better in social environments! Then, to keep our population growing, we will send our young men out into the surrounding cities of non-gamers, and they will spend time living and working there, meeting new people, and finding mates. There will be a full service for online gaming, so they won't be cut off, and when they come home to visit and relax, we will have gaming marathons to reinvigorate them!
Muahahaha! Now, remember what Bill Gates said? " Be nice to geeks. You'll probably end up working for one. " So, we take the helm of major corporations, buy up their ownership, and fund our existence full of gaming goodness!
4e isn't really about changing the rules, it's about changing a way of life. Or maybe 5e. Whatever. Gamers will inherit the Earth! Muahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!