blargney the second
blargney the minute's son
In other words, don't make plans.
-blarg
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Only two ways you're getting arcane spells in armor in that setup:
1) Spells with no somatic components or stilled spells.
2) Bard.
I'd go for the latter - you've got the stats for a reasonable melee bard.
-blarg
Frankly speaking, I think it will be very hard to make an efficient fighter mage in 3.5e without using some prestige class or Duskblade (PHB II).
You lose your spellcasting ability, including your ability to use spell trigger or spell completion magic items, just as if the spells were no longer on your class list.