I mentioned that I was taking my wife to a funeral and I really appreciate the kind words you all provided. That being said, i have to talk about this funeral. It was unlike anything I had ever been too. My wife's family is primarily polish on her mom's side of the family. I am talking, a large chunk of them live in Poland, the ones here in the states still speak Polish, etc. Crazy trash, anywho. This funeral was not unlike a wedding (minus the music and dancing). Enormous multi-course meals, open bars, refreshments at the wake. It made me think about my own funeral.