Merkuri
Explorer
I play an online game of D&D every Wednesday at 8. This doesn't influence my work normally, but a couple times our department (tech support, it's only about five people) has been invited out to dinner by customers on a Wednesday night and I've had to decline, saying I have "a prior engagement." I found myself not wanting to admit that I play D&D for fear of these types of reactions. After bowing out of a few Wednesday night events my boss asked what I do on Wednesdays out of curiosity. When I told him, he seemed more amused about it than anything. He knew nothing about it besides the stereotypes of socially inept geeks sitting in somebody's dark cellar playing it, and he's asked me a few times about how it's played. Earlier this week he asked if we play "against each other" and I had to explain that usually D&D is a cooperative game where it's "us against the world" rather than "me against you". He seems to think I'm embarrased about my hobby and doesn't ask about it when other people are around. He refers to what I do on Wednesdays as "my thing." I guess in a way I am embarrassed, but not because I think it's something to be ashamed of. I'm just so conscious of the stereotypes that I find myself a little leery of telling someone I play D&D.