WizarDru
Adventurer
Word.Capellan said:D&D stigmatises you only because you let it: there are a lot more gamers out there than you might realise
Personally, if your friends are really "smart, mature and fun people", as you describe them, then I think you're selling them short. If you walk around, embarassed about your hobby, you'll project insecurity and reinforce the stereotype you seem to think everyone perceives.
Newflash: there are a lot of former and current D&D players out there. True Story: When i was working for a major government contractor a couple of years back, I overheard a consultant talking with one of the project managers:
"What's that on your desk, there?"
" Hmm? What, that? That's one of my D&D books. The Player's Handbook."
"Oh yeah? You play that?"
"Yeah. We're everywhere, man."
"Heh. Yeah, I remember playing that back in the day."
Second true story: Gurlz play D&D too, d00d. Just ask my wife. Or Buttercup. Or Kidcthulu. Or Siala. Or any number of women here on ENworld or elsewhere. And for every woman who games, there are at least two who don't think twice about it.
It's a hobby, just like any other. If you were RC-car modeling and racing, model rocketing, historical recreating, black-powder shooting, canvas painting, frisbee golfing, model railroading or any of a thousand other hobbies, the reaction isn't much different, if handled properly. Turn it into a chance to make new gamers, or share information about your hobby. People where I work know that I play D&D, just like they know another coworker plays racquetball, another skydives and another plays nationally at Bridge tournaments.
Don't sell people short. They can suprise you.
If your friends can't accept you as you are, then maybe they're not as good a set of friends as you think. Personally, I'll bet they'd say..."Oh. That's cool, I guess. We still on for going out later?"
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