physicscarp
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Breakdaddy said:People can say whatever they like, but I certainly feel the original poster's pain. I am 31 years old now, but I remember in high school not ever wanting to mention D&D because of the stigma attached to it.
Well, I am in high school now...as a physics teacher. Once kids found out that I play D&D, they either A) thought I was the coolest teacher in the world (I'm not! ) or B) continued to think I was a geeky physics teacher (I'm not! No, really!). My coworkers know, and don't seem to think two shakes about it, and let me assure you, I'm teaching in a rather conservative Christian neighborhood. No Jack Chick's at this school!
And as far as bringing women home, when I brought my wife home for the first time, she saw the first edition DMG, PHB and MM sitting out. She's admitted since then that she was nervous at first, having heard all of the media hype and urban legends surriounding D&D. However, she simply asked me about the game. Why? Because she is "fun. And smart. And mature." and that's why I married her.
Social insecurity cannot be created by one game or stigma. The game only enhances the insecurities already there. Would you be any more comfortable telling people that you play Star Wars d20? Or Mutants & Masterminds? Palladium Fantasy? GURPS? 7th Sea?