Grandson of Son of Squamous. HIVE that is it's own Grandpa...

[Goldmoon]

The corollary to that being: You don't always know what you need. But once you know - you start looking, and you do your best until you get there. Never forget that you can change the direction your life is taking - whether it's career, relationships, etc. You just have to make the decision, and start acting on what you want to change.

Somehow, GM, I think you've got the drive to do that.

I think the problem is I'm trying to have a love life and a career and thats not possible right now or at least not practical. I need to keep my mind on work out here.

 

[The_Warlock]

Its not always a matter of trust out here. Outside my squad Not many will accept a woman in this line of work. The Hive allows me to get out some frustrations and feel like I'm talking with friends. Sometimes I think there are two Eponines. The one thats here and the one you all know. I've had to become a different person to fit in. I'm not complaining mind you, I like the new me. Its just nice to have a lifeline and outlet for the old me to come back when I'm done here.

Well, let's face it - you are proving to the boys that balls aren't always required. That doesn't always go over so well.

And the important thing, really, is to remember that all these aspects of you are you. It's important not to lose any of the good aspects. Glad to keep your schizophrenic duality engaged. chuckle

 

[Aeson]

Its not always a matter of trust out here. Outside my squad Not many will accept a woman in this line of work. The Hive allows me to get out some frustrations and feel like I'm talking with friends. Sometimes I think there are two Eponines. The one thats here and the one you all know. I've had to become a different person to fit in. I'm not complaining mind you, I like the new me. Its just nice to have a lifeline and outlet for the old me to come back when I'm done here.

We all have 2 faces. One we show the public and one we show friends. Some may have more than 2. I can understand there being 2 of you.

 

[Goldmoon]

Well, let's face it - you are proving to the boys that balls aren't always required. That doesn't always go over so well.

And the important thing, really, is to remember that all these aspects of you are you. It's important not to lose any of the good aspects. Glad to keep your schizophrenic duality engaged. chuckle

Yes, we must help good Eponine keep evil Eponine in check. Otherwise [Doc. Emitt Brown] The consequences could be disasterous [/Doc Emitt Brown]

We all have 2 faces. One we show the public and one we show friends. Some may have more than 2. I can understand there being 2 of you.

I hope there is only 2....

 

[Aeson]

I think the problem is I'm trying to have a love life and a career and thats not possible right now or at least not practical. I need to keep my mind on work out here.

Spend time with Rebecca. You need it just don't try for too much right now. Trying to find love in war could lead to heart break. You're right about keeping your mind on your work. When all is done then maybe you can try to be with her.


Sometimes I think I need to listen to my own advice.

 

[The_Warlock]

I think the problem is I'm trying to have a love life and a career and thats not possible right now or at least not practical. I need to keep my mind on work out here.

It all depends on what's important to you. It also depends on what you are willing to give up to get something else.

I've seen people succeed at juggling the two, and other's crash and burn one, or BOTH, by trying both and giving neither the attention they need.

What's important is identifying what IS most important for you, and taking the steps to achieving it. That's actually the tough part, especially once you've put lots of effort into something.

 

[Aeson]

Yes, we must help good Eponine keep evil Eponine in check. Otherwise [Doc. Emitt Brown] The consequences could be disasterous [/Doc Emitt Brown]

Will not make comments about minivans.....Will not make comments about minivans.....Will not make comments about minivans.....

I hope there is only 2....

If there any more I'll take one of them.

 

[The_Warlock]

I hope there is only 2....

Bah! If it's not a party in there, you re missing something.

 

[Goldmoon]

Spend time with Rebecca. You need it just don't try for too much right now. Trying to find love in war could lead to heart break. You're right about keeping your mind on your work. When all is done then maybe you can try to be with her.


Sometimes I think I need to listen to my own advice.

I'm enjoying the time I have but were off again within the next 48 hours. Everything will have to wait.

It all depends on what's important to you. It also depends on what you are willing to give up to get something else.

I've seen people succeed at juggling the two, and other's crash and burn one, or BOTH, by trying both and giving neither the attention they need.

What's important is identifying what IS most important for you, and taking the steps to achieving it. That's actually the tough part, especially once you've put lots of effort into something.

The most important thing right now is my job I'm afraid. I'll enjoy the time I have but I'll try to keep my mind where it belongs.

Ok hive, I'm going to finish reading (I'm also trying to study for promotion) and get some sleep. Enjoy the day all and thanks so much for the advice.

 

[The_Warlock]

The most important thing right now is my job I'm afraid. I'll enjoy the time I have but I'll try to keep my mind where it belongs.

As long as you know what you want, that's what counts.

And check your PMs - since the new timewaster might work. ;P