The HIVE: One Mind, No Purpose.

[Goldmoon]

I get that but its like with her something bad happens to a gamer they deserve it, and there is not repercussions to wishing ill upon them. Rev's didn't do anything to her and he's not stealing my time. But since he games and goes onto a gaming site she automatically has ill feelings towards him.

Some of us are more possessive that others. Some people automatically place labels on people to make themselves feel better. I'm not trash talking your girlfriend or anything, just giving my opinion. Perhaps you need to find out the root of her behavior. Maybe she secretly resents your gaming? Maybe she feels threatened by your online friends?

 

[Relique du Madde]

I know she hates when I game. She always would get pissed off when I used to do WoW since I would spend more time doing that then talking to her in ims (since how she lives like 90 miles away). But even when I used to game at a friends house she would get uppity even though my weekends were essentially one day with my friends pplaying dnd the other with her.

 

[Ginnel]

Hmmm, well I said a bit in the thread Mandy started up.

this shouldn't be happening to them.

Should we think about closing the Hive down for a bit? or something as a mark of respect or keep it going because it was one of the things he loved?

 

[Goldmoon]

I know she hates when I game. She always would get pissed off when I used to do WoW since I would spend more time doing that then talking to her in ims (since how she lives like 90 miles away). But even when I used to game at a friends house she would get uppity even though my weekends were essentially one day with my friends pplaying dnd the other with her.

Well she needs to grow up and accept that youre a gamer or move on. Were I not over here, I'm sure I'd be gaming and damn anyone who wants to be with me but wont accept that. Ask her why she has such a problem with it. Is she embarassed by it? Did a gamer run over her dog? It she just weird? These are the questions you must answer.

 

[Goldmoon]

Hmmm, well I said a bit in the thread Mandy started up.

this shouldn't be happening to them.

Should we think about closing the Hive down for a bit? or something as a mark of respect or keep it going because it was one of the things he loved?

I dont really know. Some know him a lot better than me. I will support anything that is decided.

 

[Ginnel]

Well I'm off to sleep, umm.

Regarding your lady Relique I think being jealous of your gaming is a bit rich, seeing as when she came to visit you (if i remember rightly) she brought her brother along?

 

[Relique du Madde]

Should we think about closing the Hive down for a bit? or something as a mark of respect or keep it going because it was one of the things he loved?

I think we should keep the conversation going. Anything could happen to anyone of us and we may never know. We know something bad happened to Rev. We should not quit the conversation because of it. We should prey and hope he gets better so that when he returns he will have a place to return to.

Maybe if anything the next hive should be dedicated to him if things continue or get worse.

 

[Ginnel]

On second thoughts the Hive has been a very good place for people, including Rev, to get stuff off their chests and discuss their feelings and what not, so maybe keep on going is actually the best way forwards.

Hmm.

 

[Relique du Madde]

Well she needs to grow up and accept that youre a gamer or move on. Were I not over here, I'm sure I'd be gaming and damn anyone who wants to be with me but wont accept that. Ask her why she has such a problem with it. Is she embarassed by it? Did a gamer run over her dog? It she just weird? These are the questions you must answer.

She's old school die hard republican and buys into the whole notion that they tried to shove down people's throats about gamers living in a fantasy world.. Does that answer alot of your questions?

 

[Tinker Gnome]

I want Rev to get better. I miss him.

I guess we should keep the Hive open...I dunno.