Hussar
Legend
OP said:When I play 4e, my fellow gamers make good (often brilliant) use of their powers and make excellent tactical decisions. But it never even occurs to them to do anything else. When I wanted to temporarily blind a creature with my cloak -- the classic "throw a cloak over it's head to distract it for a few seconds" -- my fellow gamers looked at me as if I had sprouted a new head!
The funny thing is, unlike those here who have apparently had much better gamers to play with than I have, I have never, not once, ever seen a player say something like this. Nor, have I as a player tried it either. Same with swinging from a chandelier or whatever.
About the closest I would have seen is perhaps jumping through a window to catch people unawares.
Tactics? What were those? You rolled dice until the bad guys fell over. Go outside the rules? Why? Who am I to tell Gygax that he's wrong. Or any game designer for that matter.
I think people vastly overestimate the amount of "thinking outside the box" that happens at most tables. Or perhaps I just underestimate it. We're all colored by our own experiences after all.
But, is this a fiddly bits issue? Nope. It happens in every system IME.