I'm A Banana
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FireLance said:At the end of the day, wish lists are a tool for the DM to find out at least one aspect of what the players want out of his game.
Yeah, but as a DM, what I want to do is give my players what they want. So with a wishlist, I feel an obligation, in the spirit of helping my players play the awesome heroes that they envision themselves playing, to give them the shiny metal performance enhancers that they feel better completes their vision of their awesome hero. If I withhold their desired items from them, I feel that I need a justification.
I think that it also creates a sort of "generic Christmas gift" feel. If I ask for a brand new 10-speed mountain bike and I get a five-year-old used Schwinn with tassles on the handlebars, that's going to feel a little like I've been cheated. Or to Generic Food Metaphor it, if I want to get a big, beefy, grill-fried hamburger and I get a MacDonald's hamburger, I'm going to feel a little like my request was ignored. This isn't what I asked for. Even if the DM is allowed to do it, even if there's no actual mandate, there's certainly something to the idea that putting the item on a wishlist creates an expectation for that item, and if you get something lesser or inferior, or just different, it's going to feel a little hacked. At the very least, it's something to sell in order to save up to get what you really want.
That might just be me at my table, though.
It does make me happy that WotC is going about changing how that works in 4e now.