Are you saying my group is playing wrong because we game in the middle of a busy highway?
No, I'm saying that suicide is painless. It brings on many changes. And I can take or leave it if I please.

Are you saying my group is playing wrong because we game in the middle of a busy highway?
People tend to organize ourselves as tribes based on shared characteristics, but I think most of these discussions are less about taking sides or staking out territory than in identifying and sharing interests.There's just this.. human characteristic or whatever you want to call it, that so many seem to have.. that when we really like something and obsess over it, or we have a preffered way of doing things.. that we expect others to see it the same way. Liking something on it's own isnt enough, you need to actually feel superior while liking it.
And that's not very positive but understandable when it comes to things like religion, politics, morality or things like that. But frivole, entertainment topics.. like what console do you game on? which bands do you like? Which D&D edition do you prefer, and how do you play it?
I find it both funny & sad at the same time these things get argued in the same way how religion or politics might be taken.. maybe it's an identity thing?
One of the best reasons to share one's personal preferences and learn from others is to find ways to prevent one person's fun from running counter to another person's fun.If it's all about role playing, you might as well do improv theatre, and if it's all about gaming, you can play warhammer. And even if one does prefer one thing over the other, if you like doing what you do, who cares as long as your fun doesnt counter other people's fun.?
Mock all you want, but fun is serious business. Play is very important, for our mental, emotional, and physical (in the case of sports, frex) development and for creating and maintaining social networks.And wheter or not the R in RPG stands roll or role, the P and G stand for PLAYING GAME! Keep that in mind and it's fun, dont obsess over the method because 'Roll/Role Protocol Serious-bussiness' is just sad.
Even though "it's all good", the ends of the spectrum CAN clash. Usually, I see it from the proto-wargamers, who may have a "Who put their Oscar bid in my Action Flick?" mentality when encountering those who fancy themselves Olivier, Jr.
I suspect, though, that this is because "Master Thespians" seem to be far outnumbered by "Last Action Heroes."
Clearly the old Harlot Table is more important in some games than others.Random Party Girl.