Whizbang Dustyboots
Gnometown Hero
A heavy-handed DM can make anything suck. But where would Superman be without Lois Lane and Jimmy Olsen to rescue, or fears about someone targeting the Kents back in Smallville?I've found that this is largely a reaction to a string of DMs who can't help but look at your character's history and living family members as targeting lists.
Orphanman would be a lot less interesting than Superman. Players closing off the possibility of plots revolving around NPCs and institutions that they care about are really cutting out a lot of possibilities for engaging adventures.