Stormonu
NeoGrognard
Might I humbly suggest, then, that they say this*, instead of the old saw about 4E (usually, and 3E, less so) being a tactical miniatures game and not a roleplaying game?
The first is a statement of position. The second is an insult. And, yes, needs to die in a fire.
* IF, in fact, it's the argument they want to make - I suspect in some, if not many, cases, it is not.
I don't think it much different that saying they don't want D&D to be Hack'n'Slash or Monty Haul. There are some folks that don't want the game tied to the grid and the tactics thereof (like me - I'm horrible with tactics), regardless of edition.
Some people will argue that any one of the three - Hack'n'Slash, Monty Haul or Tactics-base Minis game has been baked into any given edition; that is what they see the game having devolved into and it's very hard to argue against experiences that individual has had with the game - for good or ill.