TwoSix
Everyone's literal second-favorite poster
Honestly, I judge because the stereotype of the overprepared DM can be actively harmful to allowing new people to DM, if that stereotype is the expectation of some of the players. It's perfectly okay NOT to have a deep world all defined for the players.So why judge, man? If they're harshing your groove in an actual game, sure, but if they're in their own room, doing their thing, I'm not going to look down on them.
Plus, are "onanistic" and "wanker" all that pejorative? Everybody does it, man.
