That was not my intent at all. What I'm saying is two people can have different definitions of what constitutes balance. Neither of them are necessarily wrong (in so much as I define balanced as using these two options two players will be equally effective). Two people can look at the exact same rule, interpret it exactly the same and come to opposing conclusions as to whether something is balanced. This can come down to different preferences, playstyles and experiences.This is all skirting awfully close to claiming I'm arguing in bad faith. Not a fan of that.
I actually conceded you had a point. This is why I have consistently said "unless you think it was unbalanced in prior editions..." I understand your point in regards to the theoretical unbalancing builds a warlord can take. However in my actual play experiences I never seen it be unbalanced. I have never seen someone be grossly superior at the table when coupled with a barbarian as opposed to someone who simply built a barbarian. That doesn't mean your wrong. However I'm not saying your wrong to say that the warlord is overpowered. I'm simply saying I disagree.And I didn't just say, "it's unbalanced because I think so...". I said it was unbalanced in 4e, and the same could result in 5e, based on reasons which I took the time to spell out. Reasons you avoided quoting or responding to.
I'm deliberately looking to not argue with you. Your either using a different metric to me (perhaps using purely math rather than math + table experience) or your experiences has simply been different. Either way I'm not looking to invalidate those experiences or your opinion. Nor am I looking to assert my opinion as fact. I'm simply discussing the issue (as oppose to arguing the issue). Apologies if that has caused frustration on your end. I'm actively seeking to take a less antagonistic approach than I might have on the WotC forums in the past.
Sure. However we also have some people who feel the same way about wizards. We can devote time talking about those people just like we are for the warlord. Or we can take a less extreme approach and talk about people who have more reasonable desires. Of course how we define reasonable is the sticking point. I think it's clear that many are not asking for fighter+Battlemaster++ but are instead asking for weaker than a fighter in direct combat with the difference made up by expanding the limited options available to the Battlemaster. If you think a lazy lord is unbalanced than that will by it's very nature come across as unreasonable. Although I would liken that to someone saying casters (except the warlock) are unbalanced because their balance relies on a daily mechanic when compared with non daily classes so therefore they are going to be unbalanced in any situation except a narrow window. It's not necessarily incorrect. But it's not a viewpoint I agree with either.To some, it will never be "warlord-y enough". No matter what you give this proposed class.
Until it has too much of a good thing. Then for some it will be almost good enough.