Mistwell
Crusty Old Meatwad
"Giving yourself advantage if you succeed at the same time as giving any ranged allies disadvantage already has a steep cost attached to it. "
No, it doesnt.
Cuz, you have the choice. You know your allies and the scene.
If you see it as better to let allues pelt it with range rather than knock it down, you **wont do it**.
If there are other targets for them, or they can close to 5' to gain advantage so there is no disad - then pull back perhaps if its AO was burned as you backed off (hah) - etc etc there is no drawback at all.
"I might br dumb when i choose it" is not a drawback of the ability - just the character.
Oh come on, now you're spinning. If an action helps everyone, it has less of a cost than if it helps only a sub-group. Saying "Well, you have the choice" doesn't change it from having less utility than something that helps everyone. That's like saying a spell which heals one person for 10 hp is identical in utility to a spell that heals 5 people 9hp each, because "Well, you have the choice". The second spell has a lot more utility, and while there will be scenarios where the first spell is better than the second, on-balance it's fair to say the second will have more utility more often.
I get the sense you've staked out a position of "This feat is fine with this new ruling" and have gone from that premise to tailoring any answer you give as "how can I best defend this new status quo" rather than more objectively respond to each issue that's raised. Because I feel like your more typical posts on ENWorld would not have taken the type of bent you just took. It seemed a sort of gamist-type response - as if the game you're playing is "defend the ruling".