FrogReaver
The most respectful and polite poster ever
We really are again arguing past each other on different styles of play.
Neither is invalid. Both are fun.
- There is a story the players are going to participate in, and alter what they find to help them follow the story.
- There is a setting the players are going to explore in which things will happen, have the setting react based on player action.
In both situations the DM can have better ideas as the game progresses and either change the story, or change the setting.
Can we all get along now? 🕊
We are and have been getting along. The issue isn't different styles of play though. The issue is the insistence from those in your camp that my playstyle:
A. Invalidates player agency
B. Precludes setting based reactions to player actions
C. Is cheating
D. Makes player choice into an illusion
E. Etc...