Right, and what I’m trying to communicate is that it’s ok if you don’t get it and if you don’t think they’re different enough. I don’t get dragonborn; they just aren’t for me. 5E FR Halflings just aren’t for you it would seem.
I also think you’re overlooking a plethora of other settings (e.g. Eberron, Golarion), older products, and 3pp that HAVE done different and interesting things with Halflings that could help you break free of your Halfling malaise. That stuff is out there, you just have to go looking for it.
I am often dumb-founded how I can mention Eberron in literally dozens of posts, and people still think I'm overlooking it. The PGB halfling =/= Talenta Plains halfings. We know this right? We know the PHB doesn't mention ancestor worship or the important of caring for your dinosaur mount. So, in talking about the PHB halfling, I shouldn't even need to look at Eberron.
BUT I DID!
And I acknowledge, Eberron, a setting known for rewriting basically everything and some very good worldbuilding, did something interesting with some of their halflings. You also mention Golarion... which is a Pathfinder setting? I'm not really sure what Pathfinder has done with halflings, never played, never really considered it. I know Golarion has some interesting art and lore, but I also don't see what they really have to do with DnD, except to show that a literal DnD clone kept DnD races like halflings.
But, all in all, whether it is Golarion or something from the 1970's or some third-party company like Ghostfire Gaming... how does that excuse the PHB? Like, do we give Ford props for Tesla making electric cars? If I was able to go and find a dozen DnD clones that did halflings better... wouldn't that be a sign that DnD dropped the ball on halflings and should try and do better in the future? Like, your point that I should look anywhere except the PHB to find really good takes on halflings, really makes it seem like the PHB halflings aren't great.
And instead of people saying that I'm wrong, and that they are different enough, and giving examples of how they are different enough... So far I'm just seeing a lot of silence. Which either means no one wants to have an actual discussion or that they don't have anything to disagree with me other than saying I'm wrong because I hate halflings.