Chaosmancer
Legend
Not exactly. My intent was to remind the player that the rules would prohibit the activity he was declaring for his druid. I wanted to do this in a way that didn't break the fourth wall, and when that didn't work, I called a break to discuss it.
Ah, so you made up something to enforce the rules, and prevent a player's actions. And when that didn't dissuade them from doing what they wanted, you decided to pause the game and continue trying to enforce what you saw as "proper" on the player.
And if memory serves me, you also said that if the player had insisted, you would have retconned the armor to not be what it was, further removing the player's ability to wear the metal armor, by simply making the metal armor no longer exist.
The player could never make the choice to wear metal armor. You would prevent that from happening.
That's a pretty awesome way to carry that theme forward, sure. But there are no rules that state "a druid will not carry metal coins," so there wouldn't be much of a need for me to remind the player of the rules.
So, Druids have no issue with metal. In any form, except armor and shields.
Why? "Because those are the rules" is a terrible reason. That just makes it a pointless assertion.
Honestly I don't think the issue is that it is worked metal...after all, the druid is proficient with several weapons that have metal components, and there is no restriction for the druid using hunting traps, ball bearings, or any other metal equipment. But the rules do say that a druid won't wear metal armor or use a metal shield, specifically. Maybe it's more about faith and belief, that no druid would rely on metal for protection but would seek safety through other means? The rule doesn't come with any fluff, so it could be just about anything. It might even vary from druid to druid, and enclave to enclave.
Knowing then what I know now, I would have discussed this with the player at Session Zero. Maybe have this conversation:
"So, Chuck. You are going to play a druid, right? Excellent, that's a good choice. Listen, the rules say that druids will not wear metal armor or use metal shields. Why does your druid feel that way? What is it about metal armor and metal shields that prevents your druid from wearing it?" and then take notes.
If Chuck says "Well you see, this druid is super-special and unique and that particular rule doesn't apply because Reasons," I'd need to have a very different conversation, one about following the rules as written vs. creating a house-rule.
And hey, I'm glad you would talk to your player in the future. But that again rolls back to the conversation.
If this is something about faith and belief.... then it should be struck from the rulebook. Not only does it not make sense for all druids to have a taboo against wearing metal armor, but that should be a player decision. Not something imposed on all druids regardless of situation, as a blanket rule.