Thomas Shey
Legend
I don't think I understand your complaint yet. What now?
D&D combat mechanics are heavily abstracted, and abstracted in ways that not only don't tell you much about what goes on, they sometimes tell you things that seem counterfactual. It doesn't need to be that way. Its that way because it was a quick and dirty solution 40 years ago and its carried it forward as a legacy mechanic ever since.