Helldritch
Hero
Why the lash out at her? The idea of the card is a good one. Especially when you play with stranger and that session zero did not happen for some reason. I/we use a raised hand when we do exhibit games. But a card to answer question might actually be a good addition to our exhibit games. It is not because a solution does not suit you that it is automatically a bad one. It might not be for you, but it might be good for a lot of other people.Don't know where you are deriving this from- go back and show me where I said that?
Yeah. So why do you need the silly card, then? Just call 'time out' or 'hold on' or something like that, and have the conversation. Plus, the x-card is NOT used the same way- in most groups, it's a way to move past an uncomfortable topic or moment wordlessly, without discussion. Someone holds up the card, and the group is supposed to nod and move on. NOT the same thing at all, and not how functioning adults should be handling conflicts, either at a gaming table or anywhere else.