3. "I played D&D back in 197x just the way I play it today which was nothing like what these guys are describing."
A: Honestly, if this is really the case then you're probably part of the problem, what we're reacting against. The seeds of what we don't like about the present game/hobby grew out of the 70s and were present then in embryonic form -- that's how they were able to grow and eventually overtake the game/hobby in the 80s and 90s. To criticize or dismiss us on those grounds is to miss our point completely -- we're not about looking backwards or accurately recreating the gaming scene of 197x, we're about taking the elements that we like about how some people were playing back then, that have generally been drowned out and lost amid other approaches and styles [i.e. the way you play] in the intervening years, and bringing them forward into the present, because we know for a fact that it's still possible to have fun playing that way today just like it was then, and we'd rather play that way than the way you were playing then (and now).