It's not just about metaplot. I had already dedicated emotional effort to Dragonlance, Ravenloft, Spelljammer, and Planescape, and a bit to Dark Sun besides. By the time Eberron rolled out, my group had tried 3e, went back to 1e (we tried 3e again later) and I wasn't interested in a D&D setting that had nothing to do, at all, with any setting I was familiar with, where virtually every aspect of the setting was designed to be different and surprise you.
Isn't Dark Sun similar? It subverts most of the typical roles of the normal fantasy races and isn't connected to the rest in any way.
And all the marketing really hit the noir stuff hard. I'm just not a fan of running investigations.
Yeah, it was marketed poorly. I've only done a few side-quests involving investigations/noir in Eberron. However, I've done dozens of "typical" D&D adventures, like dungeon crawls, hexcrawls, tracking down BBEGs, gathering rare magical ingredients, killing hordes of demons and aberrations invading from Khyber, and finding powerful magical artifacts necessary to save the world.
I agree that the marketing, and often the art, tends to focus too much on the noir. It really isn't that big of a part of the setting if you dig deeper.
Also, so many things in it seemed like subversion for the sake of subverting, and I'm a traditionalist for the most part.
Eh, no. Most of the subversions weren't subverted "for the sake of subverting". Basically all of the subverted material is really, really good and of higher quality than most of the played-straight versions of the tropes. It gives a lot of thought to what it does and doesn't subvert.
I did take the artificer and the warforged, because I like technology and I like robots. In fact, the only issue I had with warforged is that they were the only constructed heritage, and they had such a specific story.
The Warforged are definitely hard to remove from Eberron, I 100% agree with you there.
I heard that Nerath did a good job of converting them over, but when I was making my homebrew race, I had to make an entirely different version of "Golemfolk" to fill the role of Warforged in my world.
I'm in a different place in some ways, and there are things about Eberron that sound interesting. But I'm an all-in kind of guy, and it's hard to add another deep dive to all my franchises at this point.
It is definitely hard to get into settings, especially when there's been a lot of material for them. I made the mistake of spending a couple months reading the FR wiki before I figured out that there was no way that I could learn everything about the FR in my lifetime.
However, if you like some of the stuff from it, I have an interesting idea, but I'm not sure if you would engage.
Here's a proposal:
You tell me one awesome thing about a setting that you know a lot about and love that you think I don't know yet and that you think I'd like. It can be Dragonlance, it can be Dark Sun, or Old Ravenloft, Planescape, or whatever setting you want.
Then, I'll tell you about one part of Eberron that I think is awesome and you probably don't know yet.
(Maybe this would be a good idea as a new thread, though. Would people like that?)