I don't know what your day-to-day is like, but, unless we're talking about the laws of physics, aren't the vetoes that we experience in the real world soft vetos? Like, there are reasons it'd be inadvisable for me to go punch my neighbor in the nose, but there're no actual direct veto powers exercised on me. A cop might tell me I can't (though the likelihood of the police being in the area before I punch my neighbor in the nose are approaching nil), but I very much can. I'm only really constrained by the limits of my imagination and my willingness to accept the consequences of my nonsense.