Maxperson
Morkus from Orkus
The 5e PHB defines it. It says very clearly what it's about. The word itself has meaning beyond that and the game uses the common use of words. If he doesn't know what it's about, then I probably can't help him. It's very clear.The whole point is that it is NOT defined, Max. You were responding to someone who explicitly said, "I don't actually know what 'Intimidate' is supposed to be about," albeit in their own words. They DON'T know what it's supposed to be for, and honestly, I'm not entirely sure I do either.
Nothing of the examples would automatically result in someone hating you, and possibly not even disliking you. They won't like you, but there are many other uses that fall under the common meaning of intimidation that also won't cause hate. If the DM defaulting to hate as the result for all uses of intimidate, that's lazy DMing in my opinion.Because, as I said, the books pretty strongly position it as "this is the skill that 100% always makes people hate you for using it." No, they don't explicitly say such. But the examples they list are all things that would, reasonably, make a person hate you in addition to fearing you, and not one of them is an example of something that would make no sense as causing hatred. Meanwhile, both Bluff and Diplomacy/Persuasion have both positive and negative uses, can clearly result in someone having a durable positive attitude toward you OR negative OR anything else, really.
So, no, I don't buy that the circular definition actually accomplishes anything.