The part that I always find funny with the notion of "change for changes sake" and whatnot is the notion that somehow the first swing of the bat is the best one. I mean, good grief, there are very, very good reasons for most of the changes D&D has undergone over the years and those reasons have been illustrated by the bazillion play hours that gamers have devoted to the game.
Why don't we have weapon vs armor tables anymore? Because weapon vs armor rules are clunky, hard to use and were largely ignored by gamers in actual play. Why reduce the impact of species on character creation? Because it was found that that single thing you decided at the beginning of playing a character probably shouldn't impact virtually every thing you do for the next thousand hours of game play. That tying specific stat bonuses (or penalties) to races simply meant that either those numbers got ignored by tables or those species didn't get playing in combination with those classes.
How many hours of play does D&D see in a given year? Lots. And, no, your table and my table and his or her table over there probably aren't all that different at the end of the day. They are a lot more similar than they are different. So, we aggregate different opinions over time and that's how the game changes.
If you find that the game has changed in a way that you don't like, so many times it's because you were choosing to play the game in a way that other people weren't. Not because they are right and you are wrong. But, simply because your priorities and their priorities are different. And that's perfectly fine. But, to then try to tell everyone else, "No, you are playing the game wrong, you must not make this change because it causes a problem at MY table" is incredibly selfish and short sighted. It's so arrogant to think that just because your table does something, that that's the way the game should be played.
Either convince me of the brilliance of your way of playing or just accept that we play differently and let me enjoy my game without having to defend it over and over and over and over and over and over again. It really is exhausting. I love D&D, but, my tolerance for fandom is becoming less and less as time goes on.