Bedrockgames
I post in the voice of Christopher Walken
I mean, okay? I love sessions that involve this sort of stuff--I'd say about a third of my DW sessions include it--and I have no problem calling it that.
It's one thing to react to stuff which is obviously or overtly offensive. This, to me, reads like getting mad about an accurate metaphor. Like it's pretty reasonable to find the "pretend elfgames" descriptor irritating and insulting, because that's quite literally the point (it's an attempt to claim that TTRPGs aren't and shouldn't be considered serious, which is a major mistake IMO; they are often not serious, but that's quite different!) But...like...doing that sort of pure "we are just two people talking to each other about imaginary aesthetics in a way that only affects play by establishing that two characters relate to one another"...that's what playing in a dollhouse is! Like that's very literally what playing with dolls is all about--and I would know, I played with dolls as a child even though my parents didn't approve (they were somewhat more conservative then than they are now.)
When a descriptor is both accurate to the actions conducted and accurate with regard to the point and purpose of the thing being analogized, why is that an insult? I genuinely don't understand.
Again, not interested in taking this down another detour. I don't think we need a dollhouse conversation here. But I think ti is pretty obvious a lot of people are going to dislike this label being applied to their gaming. Doesn't mean you have to. You can love the term. Most gamers I know probably wouldn't embrace the dollhouse label