Then I wasted a spell slot. I’d have been better off not readying and just talking. The point was to negotiate and to interrupt her in case she casted, not trigger her to cast.I'm guessing all readied actions triggered at the same time, that's why the spear went through, you all saw each other at the start of the resolution of things. I guess?
You couldn't have known. That would be similar to casting it with trigger "when bartender drops the glass" and he doesn'tThen I wasted a spell slot. I’d have been better off not readying and just talking. The point was to negotiate and to interrupt her in case she casted, not trigger her to cast.
Presumably, she made her concentration check to get her spell off when she got hit.
I think it actually does, it is just that you waste a spell if the trigger doesn't happen - technically, you cast it on your turn as you ready an action...isn't that how it works? Otherwise it could never be "a reaction" which is instant by definitionPrepared actions with spells require you to cast your standard action, it doesn't reduce casting time to a reaction.
It also changes your initiative position to the point where the actions go off.I think it actually does, it is just that you waste a spell if the trigger doesn't happen - technically, you cast it on your turn as you ready an action...isn't that how it works? Otherwise it could never be "a reaction" which is instant by definition
So Mr. Black readied to cast if she cast a spellReadying an Action
The ready action lets you prepare to take an action later, after your turn is over but before your next one has begun. Readying is a standard action. It does not provoke an attack of opportunity (though the action that you ready might do so).
You can ready a standard action, a move action, or a free action. To do so, specify the action you will take and the conditions under which you will take it. Then, any time before your next action, you may take the readied action in response to that condition. The action occurs just before the action that triggers it. If the triggered action is part of another character’s activities, you interrupt the other character. Assuming he is still capable of doing so, he continues his actions once you complete your readied action. Your initiative result changes. For the rest of the encounter, your initiative result is the count on which you took the readied action, and you act immediately ahead of the character whose action triggered your readied action.
Yes that is why your prepared actions wouldn't have worked. You taking the standard action to prepare your action is what caused her to use her prepared action.
She already used a standard action and you didn't, in no scenario in traditional initiative would you be adjusted ahead of her.
Casting a spell is considered hostile action. (You have to cast a spell to use it as a prepared action, seeing a spell being cast she used her reaction meanwhile you are still doing a standard action so her is immediatly first.)
I made it all resolve at once since you'd all be acting on the same number in traditional initiative tables.