Wish I'd found this thread earlier, though it seems to have degraded into a bunch of gawking guys. Though I'm no longer single I do remember what being a single gamer girl was like.
Me personally, I'm a gamer girl. My hubby considers himself one of the luckiest guys on earth for finding a girl who games of her own accord, not just someone who is dragged to the table by her boyfriend (I met him at the gaming table, his first D&D game since coming back home from the Marines). I'm sure there are plenty of geeky gamer girls out there just waiting to be made, who'd love the game of their own accord if someone just showed them how it was played (in a method that a girl would like, because let's face it, most women have different styles of play than men)
and here's my favorite picture of myself, even though it's 5 years old.