Sacrosanct
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Seems like you don't know what an analogy is. I've explained why I used it, to illustrate why what you said was problematic because you seemed shocked/surprised that anyone would find it as such. Again, I'm not comparing the suffering of grognards with women in real life. You seem hung up on that to where you can't see the analogy I was making, that being celebrating a group of people becoming more and more of a minority of group X as a good thing."Less Involved"
Nope. Outnumbered. Specific term. As in "More of one group than another"
And I "Owned" the fact that my statement came across as an insult. Right here:
I'm not going to apologize to you, specifically, 'cause you were also insulted by my miscommunication. I've apologized and owned it.
I am, however, going to call you out for trying use the real world marginalization of a group of people as cudgel to try and cow me into backing off.
Screw that. And screw your new line on Ageism as well. It's the same cudgel and I won't stand for it.
"Missed the point" my left nostril. The point was to try and compare grognards being outnumbered by new players to real world harm. To try and ignore any sense of nuance or scale in order to support the idea that any group being a minority is inherently bad.
You brought up age with the "older players" term, not me, hence my reference to ageism. The fact that an impacted member of a group you denigrated is trying to explain to you why what you said is problematic is coming across to you as "beating you with a cudgel" is problematic in a whole new way, but I have a feeling that conversation won't go anywhere productive, so there's not point. Last I checked, you (or any of us) don't get to tell people of a certain group that what we said about them is or isn't actually offensive or not.
All I did was point out how there are a lot of reasons to celebrate the demographics of D&D players becoming more diverse, so focusing on one older group of gamers being more and more outnumbered as your top one (the only one you felt needed mentioning) is a bit odd at least, and explained why when you acted surprised.
I've said my explanation. You either accept it, or you don't. But either way, I won't repeat myself and derail this topic any further.