Thomas Shey
Legend
When I spend a year designing a setting and determining (among many other things) the various cultures and creatures etc. that exist there, by the time it gets to the point of presenting it to prospective players and inviting them to join those things are locked in and nailed down. Here's the playable species (the seven from 1e, unless I decide I've seen enough Gnomes for a while and ban them), here's the basics of the setting, here's the culture of the starting area - let's roll 'em up and drop the puck!
And while you might call it a lack of respect that I don't offer you more choices, the flip side is that your request-demand-insistence that there be more choices shows a lack of respect for the work I've already put in...which doesn't exactly get us off to a promising start.
This does, however, require someone to assume doing predesign to the level there's no room in the setting for anything else is a good idea in the first place.