Look, there's no "gotcha" waiting behind the point that some games have more or less agency than others. This should be trivially obvious. The issue here is that, for whatever reason, people are choosing to take a statement about relative agency as insulting or belittling to their choice of game. This isn't true, though, and as someone that enjoys the same game but can acknowledge the relative difference in agency, it should be obvious that it isn't.
Unless, of course, you think that I just enjoy insulting myself? I don't, but that's an interesting take.
But, back to the lack of a "gotcha." The acknowledgement says nothing at all about you or your game. It can only ever say anything about a person making a choice, and all that is said there is that they prefer a thing or not.