ExploderWizard
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This is D&D. We're D&D players. The dangerous wilderness should be what we seek out.
And when there's no more dangerous wilderness, it's usually time to retire, at least for a time, to that keep you liberated so long ago.
This is what too many "experienced" gamers often forget.
I also disagree with your assertion that unbalanced = fun.
KM correct me if I'm wrong but I didn't get the impression that this was your assertion exactly.
My own assertion is that rules balance is not required for fun which is not the same thing.
IMHO 4e is very hard to house-rule (relative to other editions of D&D), so the fact that Ari has suffered frustration trying to house-rule it makes total sense to me -- and has nothing to do with over intellectualization, or with balance being some kind of boogieman.
Cheers, -- N
Nope it's simply so involved,complex, and dependent on uncustomizable software tools that the pain in butt outweighs even the satisfaction of getting the game you want.
I still managed to houserule a bunch of stuff. I'm just careful that none of it conflicts with the character builder.