hong said:
D&D is mostly about "the stuff" because that's half of "killing things and taking their stuff", and that is, essentially, the core philosophy of 3E.
Since this topic was old two years ago, here are some random pictures of dinosaurs.
Dinosaurs, eh? Nice...you crack me, so consistently, up.
Not too long ago in a campaign I played in, our party wizard was challenged by a rival wizard to a duel to the death. Being honorable (lawful), he turned it down. When someone in our group mentioned to him later, "Dude, if you would have killed her you would've gotten her stuff!"
His response was priceless: "......her stuff? Really? Where'd she go?"
And then someone else made some comment about how you shouldn't do things just for the "stuff".
To which a wise veteran replied, "No, that's why we're here...for the stuff!"
Personally, I think that the "stuff" is necessary to keep the combat balanced at high levels, but it doesn't necessarily define your character.
I wish I had a dino-picture to share now, but I don't. Sorry. Maybe hong can give another one...