SnowleopardVK
First Post
Other than that, tell your player it's a commonly accepted form of play that perhaps he isn't aware of due to his inexperience. Just like everyone in the thread said, I've seen this as a part of GM'ing in every edition of D&D and used by every GM I've ever played with (rolling secretly behind the screen, for npc's and pc's). I've never heard of anyone ever having a problem with this. Your player isn't just the odd-man-out in your group as concerns this, he's the odd-man-out in the entire roleplaying community.
Thanks for the page numbers. I do think those will help.
I'm not going to risk suggesting he's inexperienced to his face though. I'd never hear the end of it and it'd just end up being more trouble for me. He's actually the most experienced player in the group by nearly ten years (which I never would have guessed from the way he plays).