In my games, and games I play in with my regular group, the player has control of the cohort 95% of the time, with the remaining 5% left for DM veto if the player is trying to abuse having a cohort in some way.
And frankly, I'm insulted at the suggestion that holding a conversation with yourself is anything but normal!
And frankly, I'm insulted at the suggestion that holding a conversation with yourself is anything but normal!
