Li Shenron
Legend
werk said:The only time I've ever had a cohort, our party started to build a stronghold and a city grew up near it. My paladin took leadership and assumed leadership of the town. My cohort was a fighter/paladin in training, and I kinda left him to run everything while I was adventuring.
My DM said that I rarely spent any time training or accompanying my cohort (which was not why I took the feat), and basically turned him against me. It kinda soured me on the whole idea of a cohort, that is, the cohort can easily become a liability if the DM wants to go that direction.
I eventually stopped playing my paladin so that he could devote all of his time to caring and defending his city/followers.
Leadership ruined my character!
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Your DM ruined your character Anyway it's not uncommon to treat leadership that way, and honestly I would not take the feat as a player mostly because I don't want it to be screwed up by a DM who thinks you should supply the feat with RP (which obviously does not happen with other feats).