Belen
Legend
Except it violates the actual rules. It is not a philosophy, you cannot force the affected person to harm themselves. I am sure that the DM can make that ruling but I go back to what I said about how to handle such a person.But some of the examples are making the same assumptions, that the caster decides how to implement the command not the target. If you follow that philosophy what the DM did was par for the course.
I think it is clear that the affected player or NPC should decide how to interpret the command. Period.