Vaalingrade
Legend
So in an alternate universe you'd have the same issue with rogues.Sadly, Changelings have forever been ruined for me by an awful experience I had with a DM introducing me to Eberron for the first time.
Every NPC was potentially a gotcha moment of it really being the villain of the campaign. It got old.
Later, it was my unfortunate anecdotal experience that virtually every player of a changling I was in a game with tended toward playing some sort of pervy weirdo trying to manipulate NPCs into compromising romantic situations.
That and a few other things have lead to changlings being among the races I feel negatively toward.
Sorry to hear you had a bad experience. For us, we've often had the 'what is my real me play, mixed with smooth cons.