Do you expect this sort of thing to persuade or convert anyone?
Taking you in good faith, that you want this issue to be treated seriously, why would you make it harder to agree with your position?
Because I got super heated and there's a lot of stuff going on in my life outside of this and I got set off. It happens. I'm not proud.
For what it's worth, I do apologize for the flippancy. I
don't apologize for calling out dismissiveness over what is (not what I
perceive but what actually
is) a hugely important issue, not just for me but for a lot of people (some of whom I know and care about). It sucks hearing that kind of nonsense day in and day out; being told you're overreacting; being told that you're just trying to manipulate others; when all you're trying to do is get through your day without having to be reminded of or forced to relive the worst experiences of your life. It
really sucks to hear that **** coming from people you otherwise respect; who otherwise present as entirely reasonable and rational people. Like, you kind of expect it from certain people, but there are others from whom it hits like a sack of bricks. Because they
are otherwise reasonable and rational and...
It just makes you feel like maybe you
are the crazy one. It's just... it's just ****ty. And I
know better. It doesn't make it suck any less.
And I just want more people to
know, or to just
understand what it feels like; but sometimes it feels like the only people who do are the people who've been through it too. And that's not something I would wish on
anyone. And even
some of us perpetuate that same garbage. Because some of us have heard it so many times we've started to believe it. And we haven't had anybody to help us understand
ourselves better. I just want... people to
listen. And
believe. And so I
try and I
try and I
try and I just.... never get through.
I can only bash my head against the same brick wall so many times before something breaks, you know?