Campbell
Relaxed Intensity
As I see this what's really at stake are what a given player who joins a group is allowed to expect or even if they are allowed to have any meaningful expectations at all. Personally I expect any group of people that I am involved in a social activity with to take my desires and feelings into account to a certain extent. That might mean I am not a good fit for some groups. I do not expect anyone to change the way they do things, but if I do not feel valued and respected I will seek out a situation where I do. In return I will value and respect everyone else at the table.
There are a million things that might make someone a bad fit for any group. This sort of thing is just one of them. At the end of the day no one is entitled to anything, but we all get to determine our own personal boundaries.
There are a million things that might make someone a bad fit for any group. This sort of thing is just one of them. At the end of the day no one is entitled to anything, but we all get to determine our own personal boundaries.