Crappy day

[reveal]

I can sort of relate, my parents are in a bit of a modd right now cause my Mom lost her car keys(Which she does everyday, but she usually finds them quickly). Now my Dad is all mad, but he has no fuse to begin with and my Mom is just quiet, which means she is upset.

*Sighs*

I hope you and your wife make up soon reveal, expecially if you have kids, if not, then if you have any I might reccomend to try and stay calm. As I tend to get upset whenever my parents are in a bad mood, and then I feel all bad. It might be the same way with your kids(or possible future children, if you ever decide to have any).

Sorry, If I came across as patronizing, I am just trying to give some advice.

Not patronizing at all. In fact, we got a note from my sons preschool teacher that he called her a punk and tried to punch her in the stomach. And at one point he got mad, pushed a table and pushed over some chairs.

Like I said, it wasn't a yelling fight, but it was a fight. He definitely picked up on it.

 

[Darth K'Trava]

Not patronizing at all. In fact, we got a note from my sons preschool teacher that he called her a punk and tried to punch her in the stomach. And at one point he got mad, pushed a table and pushed over some chairs.

Like I said, it wasn't a yelling fight, but it was a fight. He definitely picked up on it.

Goes to show you'd better watch *where* you have your fights and *who* might be in the audience. Kids pick up alot of what parents do and say. You'd be surprised what your son has picked up from you and your wife....

 

[reveal]

Goes to show you'd better watch *where* you have your fights and *who* might be in the audience. Kids pick up alot of what parents do and say. You'd be surprised what your son has picked up from you and your wife....

He's a huge geek, so I'm not surprised there.

 

[WhimsyTheFae]

Communicating is most important (and it appears that you recognize that...even if after the fact), apologizing is next (even if blame can be split, an apology not only shows remorse, but also shows responsibility) and finally, love overcomes life's little bumps...

My experience is that no matter how I perceive my action, my wife is more forgiving than I give her credit for (hopefully you are just being too hard on yourself as well).

Hope that it all works out for you.

 

[reveal]

Communicating is most important (and it appears that you recognize that...even if after the fact), apologizing is next (even if blame can be split, an apology not only shows remorse, but also shows responsibility) and finally, love overcomes life's little bumps...

My experience is that no matter how I perceive my action, my wife is more forgiving than I give her credit for (hopefully you are just being too hard on yourself as well).

Hope that it all works out for you.

It's all good. My wife and I talked and we're good. We both realize it was stupid.

 

[WhimsyTheFae]

It's all good. My wife and I talked and we're good. We both realize it was stupid.

Great news...aren't wives awesome (my apologies to any who do not have it so lucky)?

 

[Angel Tarragon]

It's all good. My wife and I talked and we're good. We both realize it was stupid.

Glad everything is okay on the homefront.

 

[Darth K'Trava]

He's a huge geek, so I'm not surprised there.

Being a geek is one thing. But picking up on your lesser habits is another....

 

[reveal]

Glad everything is okay on the homefront.

Ya. I think I was just in a funk since it took SO long until I was able to talk to her and, by then, everything that could've gone bad went through my head. In the end it took like 3 minutes of talking and it was done.

 

[Darth K'Trava]

It's all good. My wife and I talked and we're good. We both realize it was stupid.

And she'll probably rib you for the next six months for that stupid thing you did that you've long since forgotten but she hasn't.... We women are just like that!