But it is a table choice - there's a certain social pressure sure, but there's a social pressure to do a lot of things in the game (not splitting parties being an obvious one). I'm interested though - you mentioned that there were cases where a leader could force you to do things. Do you have any examples of that which aren't magic? I'm honestly interested as I don't think I've ever seen a Martial power source leader power that did that.So the option is to just waste someone else's turn and work against their choice of character class, or capitulate. And flavor does matter. The leader is ordering you around, even if you rebel against it.
It's far better to just not make a class that bosses other PCs around and let that sort of thing be a table choice.

