WARNING: some of the following involves religious commentary. I mean no offense to anyone, and apologize ahead of time to anyone I will inevitably offend, anyway.
As a former Wiccan priest (moved on to Deism, the belief of most of the American Founders) who has studied a great deal of world religion, I'd like to comment on a few things:
1. Wicca is very eclectic, with all sorts of traditions and the only required commonalities being a belief in the Rede and reciprocity (Three-fold law), and I've heard of a LOT of traditions, but never an 'Alexandrian' one. Doesn't mean it doesn't exist, but if it does, when talking to others a practitioner would almost certainly say 'of an Eclectic path' rather than assuming someone else would just
know about their path.
2. The Church of Satan has only, as far as I know, ever had three High Priests or Priestesses, period - Anton Lavey, of the original church, and after he died, a schism resulted in a church run by his daughter with her as a High Priestess, and another church run by Lavey's close associate High Priest Lord Egan. (If you want to seek one of these out for more info (both have message boards at their sites), I recommend the latter - they're nicer people, in my experience, and much more willing to share.) Other officials in the churches are called Maguses and sometimes Lords, but rarely priests, and
never high priests.
3. There IS an extreme JudeoChristian point of view that says that
anything that is not done to glorify G-d and/or according to G-d's Law is Satanic. I have a great deal of respect for people who TRULY believe this to the extent of trying hard to model their whole lives around it - mostly Amish, Mennonites, and such. Unfortunately, most of the time this concept is pulled out and put on display by people who hypocritically want to apply it only to things they
want it applied to - i.e. it applies to Dungeons and Dragons because "different" people play that, but not to golf. Even though the people who play both make nods at deities from other religions, and aren't busy studying the Bible or following the Law.
4. A magickal ritual is anything you do that causes
your will to feel empowered over your surroundings. (As opposed to prayer, which is asking the Divine Will to be preeminent over your surroundings, and trusting in that.) Very rarely, if ever, have I felt that way about the spells in D&D. The closest thing to it in D&D is when you roll dice and try to "push" a particular outcome with your will. A Judeo-Christian player should probably never do this, and instead just roll and be content to let G-d's Will be as preeminent in the lives of their characters as it is in their own.
5. If they want to point at
anything in D&D as being 'Satanic', it should be the Clerics, not the arcane magic-users, because the Cleric class encourages the 'worship' of 'false idols'. Not that this is a particularly useful way to look at it when it comes to getting along in a world filled with alternate REAL religions. Not to mention that this falls under 'selective Satanism' (see 3 above) again....
6. Not that there isn't
anything to think about in all this - anything that makes you think about why you do things you do is probably a good thing - but I'd like to encourage you to go to chick.com and read through some of the other things they say are 'Satanic', and see if these are people you want (or that you think G-d wants) giving you spiritual guidance.
7. Didn't want to stop at 6, for numerological reasons.
