Fanaelialae
Legend
Has anyone actually said that 'nonhumans absolutely have to feel nonhuman to be "done right"'?I don't disagree. But if the criterion someone is working on is that nonhumans absolutely have to feel nonhuman to be "done right", I think assuming anyone will do a good job of that, player or GM, is a reach. Some may be better than others at it, but I don't think the majority of people have the combination of talent and werewithal to do so.
Good job is entirely relative. You aren't likely to be publishing your take on nonhumans for mass consumption, much less expected to be penning this for a new Issac Asimov novel. You just need to do a good enough job to entertain a handful of folks at your table. I don't think that requires an overabundance of talent by any means.