"Each love is different Alyz. No one will ever replace my father in your heart, but you don't need them to. They need to be their own special love, much of how you might love your mother, your father, and your siblings differently. As for wonderful men, there are several out there. Bertram is a dear, and one of the nicest men I've met. And Zythryd has a true heart of gold."
"I think you need to stop listening to what you want here" she puts her finger on Alyz's head "and start listening that what you need here" she says as she puts her finger over Alyz's heart.